Finally your relationship has reached that stage of moving into the same house with your spouse. Sooner you realize that your life has to change. You are now sharing the house with another person, and you have to adapt to this. You will have to involve your partner now when making decisions. This bound to cause problem s between you two. Some of the causes of conflicts in first days’ are.
Losing of interest your spouse and getting easily annoyed by them. The romance of the relationship begins to die. When you were dating, you used to enjoy spending time together so much. Early days of moving in together couples lose interest in their partners. Also you get easily annoyed by your spouse remarks on almost everything.
Young couples face the going up of house costs and is a challenge especially if the costs are carried by just one of the partners. The expense you used to incur alone will increase when the two of you are living together this will be an issue if your partner expects you to pay for everything. Everything cost has doubled is will only get worse when you get kids. Many couples moving in without sharing the responsibilities of bearing the different cost. In many cultures it is the responsibility of the husband to provide for his family without being concerned with the wife’s income.
Young couples spend the first days in the same house arguing. During courtship people tend not to display their negative habits and emotions. Leading to them have a rivalry. Another thing young couples fight over is the household chores. There is confusion on the assignment of the house tasks. By doing different house duties together couples will strengthen their relationship. Another the cause of argument can be the house furniture and other accessories.
Some of the remedies that partners can try before seeking professional counseling includes.
It is recommended for young couples to avoid spending all day long with their partners. Instead they should spend more time with their friends and family members. This will rekindle the romance in their relationship.
Developing better communication skills. Fighting may be as a result of not communicating properly. Partners should acquire communication skills. Especially by learning to listen keenly to their partners. You should not be quick to anger by your spouse actions instead you should give them time to learn and adapt.
Relationships are not easy to maintain. This is evident by the increasing number of divorces nowadays. Partners should be psychologically prepared are struggles that they are likely to face in the marriage. Partners are taught to learn to appreciate each other as they are a team. This will help them overcome life challenges and live a satisfactory marriage.